I think for many people it sounds a bit worrying to raise the issue of lack of control, if we accept that parents really don’t have access to this world. Survey data from Cult Research shows that almost half of young people, aged 5 to 14, spend a lot of time on their phones, on average four and a half hours. Kids spend more time on their phones than with their parents.
For parents it’s actually an escape into a personal time from the moment they hand over the phone to their child. If the child is on the phone, obviously depending on the age, it means free time for the parent. It means time at their own disposal. And we see it on the street, in restaurants, in different situations where children get that phone, and the parents are happily enjoying lunch or dinner. Together, they may be talking about things that are extremely important to them.
But for the child it is still a brick laid on a shaky, evolutionary foundation. As the experts say, screens in various forms – TV, phone, tablet, tablet, laptop and everything else – affect children’s minds.
Depending, of course, on their age.
I think parents are escaping into the phone given to the child. They are escaping into their own freedom of decision-making action, of discussion.
