The Final Straw
“I made the final decision to leave Serbia the moment I saw with my own eyes that a party membership card was more important than my university diploma.”
This is how Tanja Milic, a 25-year-old graphic designer from Kragujevac, Serbia, begins her story. For the past two years, Tanja has been living in Sweden with her partner, having left shortly after graduating from the Faculty of Philology and Arts at the University of Kragujevac. Today, she is an art director at a Swedish graphic design firm.
“I didn’t leave for economic reasons, as I lived decently in Serbia too. However, the moment I realized that you shouldn’t look for a job through the National Employment Service, but rather at the addresses of political parties, my decision to leave Serbia was final. I simply didn’t want to put up party posters in exchange for getting a job in my field,” Tanja recalls.
“I spoke English and that summer I learned Swedish. With some savings and a laptop, I arrived in Sweden where, after a few months, I got a job at the firm where I still work. Meanwhile, my fiancé, a graduate economist, joined me. We got married and now live like any normal couple,” says Tanja.
Tanja’s peer from neighbouring Bosnia and Herzegovina, Ilda Mesic, left her native Sarajevo during her studies. She lives in Berlin, where she graduated in architecture from a university where she now works as a lecturer.
“Young people are leaving Bosnia and Herzegovina because they are losing hope, losing faith that things will get better. They leave disappointed by corruption, crime, divisions, and politicians who divide them and lock them into national and religious silos while lining their own pockets. They leave because they see no alternative for positive change. Germany isn’t perfect, far from it, but here I have a special sense of security. The foundation of that feeling is the stability of the system here, which gives me confidence that everything can’t collapse overnight. That, unfortunately, is something Bosnia and Herzegovina lacks,” shares Ilda.
